Your ceremony
isn't a performance.
It's a promise.
I tell your story the way it actually happened — the late-night talks, the inside jokes, the messy beautiful middle. No cookie-cutter scripts. No weird robot energy.
Just real love, told well.
Meet Your Officiant
My First name isn't actually Graham
It's Matt, but no one calls me that except my mom. So just call me Graham!
Nice to meet you.
Here's a little about me: I love vintage cars, all-things sports and I'm rarely without a cup of coffee in my hand. I have deep roots in wine country and feel honored to now be performing wedding ceremonies in such a special place.
HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:
We talk on the phone, or meet for coffee, or wine, or both. And you tell me all about you - how you met, what you love about each other and how you imagine your ceremony sounding and feeling.
Then I send you some sample ceremonies that you are free to tweak, slice, dice or approve as-is. Want to write your own vows? Go for it. Want me to read some simple, standard vows that you repeat back? Let's do it. This is about you and how you want your ceremony to be.
The rest is a walk in the park. I show up on your wedding day, orchestrate your personalized ceremony, ensure the paperwork is signed, sent in and delivered to your door.
And just like that...you're married.
ME AND MY WIFE,
CELEBRATING 31 YEARS!
When you’re preparing for one of the biggest moments of life, you want to assemble your team. Not just the caterers and photographers, but the person who stands alongside you when you and your partner exchange vows. We could not recommend Graham more highly for the role of officiant!
Bringing not only his humor and joy to the collaboration process, Graham worked incredibly closely with us to ensure every aspect of our vow exchange was what we envisioned. On the Big Day, he made us feel calm yet excited to take the spotlight. Whether you’re exchanging your vows in a small group setting, or hosting a huge party, Graham is the key ingredient you didn’t know you were missing!
-Grace & Scott, Napa, CA